The key to happiness is taking full responsibility for us and our life.
I have worked with many clients who have experienced abuse in one form or the other in their lives and there are 2 common factors they experience: they all have a sense ...
The 7 Step Guide to Having What You Want (23 Dec 2005)
As the stroke of midnight heralds the end of another year, research suggests that along with the rest of us you will almost certainly resolve to do some things differently in the year ahead.
Chances are you will also decide to change thi...
Imagine What It Would Be Like (24 Aug 2005)
Do you know what intrapersonal communications is? Many have not even heard of the word, yet it can be one of your most valuable tools to achieving your goals. Many ask, "Isn't that like interpersonal?" No.
Intra means self, getting person...
Love Notes: Reminders for Anyone Searching for Love (19 Feb 2006)
Intimate relationships; they infuse our lives with that special spark of vitality that makes colors shine brighter, flavors taste sweeter, and bodies feel healthier. And when they are absent from our lives we feel our deepest human desires burn un...
Beauty and the Beast (01 Mar 2006)
We put a face on as we lose touch with our soul.
My first wife (and only true wife) was accomplished in all so many ways of the world. Her parents were a perfect Methodist couple from Bloomington, Indiana. Sherry and her sister achieved in i...
Social Intelligence: Controlling Face Physiology (05 Oct 2005)
Hollywood's stars do it so why shouldn't you? It's those subtle facial feature controls that allow big screen actors to alter moods on those close ups. A slight uplifting of the lip here can turn a dull or neutral face into a sly, subtle, sexy loo...
The Life Pyramid (23 Nov 2005)
When I discovered the Life Pyramid I knew I had something spectacular. I hope this discovery has the same impact on you as it did on me.
I've stared at this chart for quite some time.
You'll find after looking at The Life Pyramid you b...
True Confidence (07 Dec 2005)
It's time to get at the root of what confidence really is; what causes it and how can we cultivate it.
Imagine you are a general. Standing on a small hill overlooking a field of enemy soldiers. You are to lead your men into battle. They look...
The Power of Roles (01 Mar 2006)
Earlier I talked about creating roles for yourself in every area of your life, then using these roles to organize the outcomes you desire rather than simply living your life around a to-do list. I never realized how powerful roles can be until I s...
Mastering Your Internal Reality (16 Jan 2006)
Emotions are the product of the reactive mind. Emotions dictate the quality of our life. If you're like most people you might feel like your emotions have the tendency to run wild even as you attempt to control them. That's because of what's been ...
Well All Experience It Some Day (23 Apr 2006)
The strangest thing came over me for the last couple of days. I've been researching mind bending stuff that goes down to the very core of behavior and beyond. It's been incredibly helpful in restructuring my "mental map" but at the same time there...
What is Your Life Ideology? (13 Dec 2005)
I've been reading "Built to Last" by Jim Collins. One of the founding principles of some companies that have lasted more than 100 years is their Ideology. That is, the core values and guiding principles that they live by.
For example, Disney...
Physiology is Energy (24 Feb 2006)
I learned a POWERFUL lesson today about Physiology. I mean an unbelievable message. And if you're reading this right now all the power that I've summoned is going to hit you like a thousand ton of bricks. And you're going to wonder where this ener...
What IT Would be Like (21 Aug 2005)
Imagine what the world would be like if all lived according to the principles set forth by the higher spirits.
Man would not toil, he would not be distracted. Progress in nearly all industry would cease. Would that mean a loss? Man would sti...
Drunk in Matter (31 Dec 2005)
How did you indulge your senses today? You reek of the things that give you pleasure. Your attachments are like glue, binding you to a large wheel that will crush you on its next revolution.
You shrug this inevitable destruction. Like a tax ...
Worldly Relationships (14 Oct 2005)
In all of human experience, the relationship is a ferocious beast to tame. A necessary yet very dangerous task in which there are many fatalities.
From the time of self awareness, the individual human experience is an internal war zone, a ba...
Death the Teacher (20 Sep 2005)
Your lifetime will be summed up in less than a page, and that's being generous. All your striving for glory, all your efforts for fame, all your seeking of love and recognition, will end in a single page of history that nobody will care much to re...
Nurturing the Vision (18 Jan 2006)
Live more powerfully & more significantly - the journey begins today!
PURPOSE is what you're created for. MISSION is what you're meant to do about it. VISIONS are the evidence, and GOALS are the means of achievement.
If you've been fol...
Intuition: Trust That Little Voice (31 Jul 2005)
Although many people discount the value of intuition, the subconscious mind it taps into is often 'smarter' than you might think. That's because it takes notice of things that slip right past your consciousness.
We have amazing abilities to ...
Change: Turn Pain into Blessings for 2006 (29 Jan 2006)
Sitting in the living room, listening to music, enjoying some personal time, the mind wanders across the recent pages of life reflecting on the decisions and choices that led to what is my life right now. Despite the lack of material and financial...